Stepping Into The Circle Of O

A good Domme/slave party is always fun (sadistically fun that is) and so it is with that thought that I am announcing that I am now a lady of The Circle Of O parties.

With regular London and UK wide dates I expect to be joining The Circle Of O very soon for a soiree of perversions and punishments.

Mistress says go visit the website, follow them on Twitter and I strongly hope to see you there soon!

Cruel love,
The Cruel Adventuress

All The Elements In That Creation

When all the elements come together, in their rightful modes, a scene can not only be created but out of that creation a strange but rightful chemistry can certainly be produced...

'Dear Mistress,
Thank you very much for the excellent session yesterday. I found it at times very thrilling/scary. It was great to be pushed after it being such a long time out of the scene.
I very much enjoyed your demeanour and approach. A wry smile mixed with a wicked sense of surprise and physical force was a delightful combination.
I di hope we can session again.
Till the next time, best wishes'

Post session reflections still occur with Myself a week on; that that had been transformed lying strapped to the padded cage top, legs akimbo with an almost post coital poise although, of course, no physical, sexual intercourse had been in the equation (or would be in any, ever). What had, been in the equation, was the needle play, at play, whilst trope secured down and almost hyperventilating (but monitored closely) endured the short term pain for the long term gain. The coolness of One's actions opposed to the rising heat of the trope before Me was a delight; the way, then, that trope swayed whilst coaxing off the long opera gloves, whilst coaxed by Mistress, a distinct pleasure. All this is a reminder as to why I am in this cruel but rewarding game and all this raises the question; will you be My next creation?

Cruel love,

Mistress

Taming The Unruly

Yet more words of appreciation! And know he has definitely set himself up for the next round of punishments with the second but last statement...

"Dear Mistress Sadie,

How are you? Very well I hope.

I just wanted to write and thank you for organising such a wonderful session last Saturday. Every aspect of the meeting with you was perfection; the location, your attire, demeanour, the kinks we explored and the playlist, the playlist was absolutely fantastic. Watching you prepare in between being subject to breath play and CBT at your hands is something that will linger in the memory for a good while yet.

It was a genuine pleasure for me to have been privileged enough to spend time with such a stunningly beautiful, intelligent, humorous and highly skilled Mistress. Words really are not enough some times are they?

The statement "everyone loves bondage don't they?" Still makes me laugh.

I look forward to being in a position to serve you again soon.

Best regards

Daniel"

Busting Those Balls On A Sunny Afternoon

As I do not get "reviewed" I thought I would post an email of appreciation from a recent session and of course My response! Happy reading, slutbags.

Hey Miss Sadie,

I just wanted to say a massive thankyou for today, it was one of the best experiences in my life. Even the small touches - the music selection, the spontinuity (I don't know how to spell spontinuity) and you have a natural aura where dominating miserable people like me comes natural to you! 

I cannot tell you how close I was to yelling yellow bellie (our safeword) during the ballbusting session in the end, I was nearing tears! And the deep heat ... soooo mean I can't believe you done that! It's still tender now you'll be pleased to know.

Thankyou for everything!! Xxx

My response: 

Dear Fuckface (stinky fuckface at that),

It was sincerely My pleasure, I have to say that I really enjoyed today - I love it when I get someone who is really up for the real BDSM deal and you were. The scene is changing so much that I tire of lists, fussy "slaves" and dislikes - It should be how it was today with exploration, intuition & trust. There is so much more to explore but I am aware that distance may be problem but do not leave it too long for I should like to show much, much more and make you into the better sub/slave I know you could be. 

I cannot tell you how close I was to yelling "I am having a fantasic time" during the ballbusting session and I was nearing tears (with laughter) especially just after the application of the Deep Heat - perfect! 

Find the pictures attached. Im afraid they are not high quality due to the light but they should suffice - wishing I'd got one of My design about your male apparel now, but perhaps next time, should there be one. 

Cruel Love, 

your Mistress

Strictly Boardroom: Double Domme Sessions

Are you sitting at your desk comfortably? We will make sure you won't be for long for Lady Seductress & The Cruel Adventuress are waiting for you in their office and if there is one thing they despise, it is waiting for the subordinate businessman to arrive. 

With you making a bad start you'll no doubt be on your knees soon enough with  it all  taken down, in the minutes, by the strict secretary: whilst the Chairwoman underlines the boardroom punishments to be doled out.

Perhaps you'll be made to wear a plug, sent back to your desk and instructed to remain in situ for the remainder of the day; or if caught glancing at the stocking tops punished there and then with a bout of CP or some other chosen necessity. Just imagine being reprimanded by these stunning, strong, formidable women in their slick business attire with their strong, formidable and slick business minds.

Importantly, a contract with exclusive clauses may have to be drawn up and signed by business slave to show his true engagement and commitment in the policies of Strict Business Bitches Ltd., 

Meeting adjourned,

The Cruel Adventuress

For all enquiries regarding a strict business double Domination session email: mssadiest@gmail.com

A Short History Of My Dominant Self

I had always had strange fascinations with pain & violence - with the latter I think because of my upbringing; seeing lots of violence in my youth due to where I was brought up. Finding out how to control these two facets was something that came easily and naturally and today I thrive from it as a much needed release.

I started going to fetish clubs in the early 00s mostly due to the burlesque club that I was running. I became enraptured with the scene in London and even performed at Torture Garden back in 2007. One of my favourite nights was Club Pedestal of course as this was(is) a night specifically for Dommes - now there are even more popping up such as Club Femdom & The Femdom Ball I feel in my element.

In terms of the online "Mistressing" scene - well on discovering it through google I would regularly surf the web taking in what each Mistress did and said on their sites and on Mistress listing sites, fascinated with it all. It harked back to the mid 90s (when I was 18) when I did adult phonework and at times did Domination: For this I had been given a Mistress manual and a few talks by the owner of the chatline - back then most of what is now normal was quite shocking and surprising. To train up properly, back in the early 00s,  I decided to do some BDSM dating and soon had a small select stable of slaves/subs who I then learnt very quickly to take advantage of.

Prior to that as a young teen I had seen Personal Services with Julie Walters - one of my favourite films next to Mary P0ppins - and it was on seeing this that I was first enlightened. And prior to that? Well of course I was always beating up the boys at school...

The Cruel Adventuress

The Story Behind That Image

They say an image can speak a thousand words - well I am certainly not going to write a thousand here but thought that I would elaborate on the above.

Here we see; the classic femme fatale, the blackmailess, the hit woman, the kidnapper, the vampire - out stalking her victim and finally, possibly, a Dominatrix enjoying the roleplay.

The inspiration for this image was taken from Eric Stanton's works. There is not a specific image that comes to mind but this was a result of his highly stylistic work that has many a time been appreciated by myself. Taking in the "cartoonishness" of it all the expression could, I suppose, be interpreted in many a way - one of; aftershock and contemplation, slight disgust, cool determination from a hard woman but one that ultimately spells out that he, the lowly male, is going to get it - whether it be by;

ball busting 

confession through electro-stimulation to the scrotum

being hogtied with various small torture methods - pegging, pricking, waterboarding

being trampled on

being made to take my heel of steel in all holes

being bent, bound and buggered hard 

The list is endless

Further enquires and suggestions to mssadiest@gmail.com 

And remember that this is roleplay - hurting is only by consent!

The Cruel Adventuress 

www.thecrueladventuress.com

xxx

The Wickedest Girl In School - My New page

The Wickedest Girl

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It is true that I was the wickedest girl in the school; nothing changes then, I suppose. Not only was I always plotting, scheming and getting others into trouble but I was (genuinely) always beating up the boys - with an unnerving competitiveness that was always targeted first and foremostly at the male sort. 

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So setting a scene not so unfamilar, this page is dedicated to my early beginnings as a Domme; although at the time I would have been somewhat innocent to the fact that my life would continue and flourish in the Femdom manner as seen today.

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Sessions are available with the cruel and wicked headgirl (Mistress) alone or  with (recommended) her bestie - my Mistress in training.

Agree with me when I say that you will not regret the nasty games and punishments we will beset upon you.

See my page now with wickedest girls gallery...http://www.thecrueladventuress.com/

The Return - In Various Guises

Well maybe in not that obvious a guise!

Yes, I am now back for the forseeable future and hoping to see a healthy diary at that.

My new site is www.thecrueladventuress.com  which I will updating by the day, hour even, as I cultivate it with various pages, vital information and even more images old and new etc.,

Note that I have returned to session out of the fully equipped dungeons in W1, Central London and will be conducting sessions, dinner dates and combinations forthwith.