A Soldier, A sounding; Smithfield to St Marys then off to Sierra Leone

 The marker, I believe, of an experienced Mistress is not just Her successes but also, importantly, Her learning curves. 

He told me he was a soldier, back to the UK for a short while. Attracted to his submissive writing style, especially when he agreed to take Mistress to dinner at a then favourite 2* michelin eaterie in Smithfield we arranged a hot D/s date. (do not let this make you think you should not book me professionally).

The night started a bit off when I was stopped by the City Of London police - accused of looking at my AtoZ whilst driving - of course I wasnt (whoever drives around Smithfield?) and of course they had a trainee to show the ropes - after finally being released from the common curbside I was on my way - the Soldier had been made to wait; as should all males when being presented with highly females accosted by the wayside. 

On arrival I liked him - presented with genuine submissive demeanour I also liked his looks and the fact he was suited up on a Sunday evening (no tie of course) - for nothing can forgo old fashioned trying and chivalrous approach.

'As if it couldn't have been more perfect' (yes, a sentence starting with As) I thought to highlight the small table lamp which turned out to be a candle cover on which I burnt my fingers....

Balls up one: spent whole dinner with fingers in ice

Balls up two: we went for after drinks - he missed his train

Balls up three: I drove him back to his parents in Kent with my fingers in bag of ice.

Of course the eve of the session a week later - which this hot piece - had definitely tributed for - arrived. Apparently he was going back to Sierra Leone straight from Mistress's in the morning but Importantly and in no time I had him stripped on the floor - he had a six pack but importantly he was submissive. I do not remember much about any perverse and evil seductions before hand but:

Balls up four: I clamped him entirely, then sounded the place that needed to be filled & tested. The blood laden sound on the exit was rather thrilling for Mistress but such was his dismay at having to explain this the army doctor, well, St Marys it was.

I mean it's not like he would've gone back to base with the clap or an infestation of crabs - I  tried to assuage his fears (just a burst blood vessel) but ultimately I ended up hiding in St Marys A&E, face behind an Evening Standard as he skulked off to be assessed by the Triage nurse who must of shared his story with all the staff - NHS workers are people too and need some respite from all the gloom.

A few weeks later I emailed to find out how he was. He had enjoyed our time but had decided to find a 'normal' woman to marry and had given up on BDSM. 

Moral of this story? Beware of hot candle covers & burst blood vessels but know that both can usually be remedied; maybe even enjoyed. And never regret the hot soldier you drove both home and to A&E.

The Garden Pegs

 Training oneself over some years - particularly from 2006 - with three particular subbies and not being one for fads, cliques or modern terms I once found myself with a pro session request for 'pegging' bearing this was about 2012-14??, I was definitely up for it. 'Yes this can be done and in Mistress's shadow you shall submit...'

The requests had including, humiliation, degradation, waxing of the bum area, bum things, CBT and pegging - well, being the Mistress of integrity itself  I charged straight down to Poundland to stock up - he was going to get it. 

Unbeknownst to this particular sub I had, over the years, devised a cruel method using pegs - believing it to be the very first - with this session looming I expanded on that; I was going to be the Mistress of Peg Punishment. 

Totally disappointing you all I fast forward to the clean up - the Mistress whose dungeon I shared at the time (Ive had my own space for some time now) enquired as to all the pegs? and I riposted 'he wanted pegging'. Well the look on her face said it all and so did the Mistress herself and how we laughed. 

Needless to say, he came back for more, he goes, he pops up every 4 years or so - and if Fifi returns I'll be bringing out the pegs still, as a stark reminder - we don't always get what we want but of course you might just get what Mistress fancies.

Moral of The Tail- Club Pedestal Memoir

 As you will no doubt know Mistress as the very embodiment of strictness and BDSM play perfection, it may or may not surprise you to learn that one of My greatest 'badges' was a public (ok fetish club) mishap. I laughed then, have regaled since, laughed some more times and these days I think about it fondly with a Mona Lisa smile.

Club Pedestal - 2010 I believe. Cherished subbie of 3 years got dogged up - collared with lead, lovely leather paddy paws and of course, the jewel in the crown - a lovely latex dog tale with plug firmly inserted. 

After Dog got in the first round he was then instructed that, yes he was dog and must be on all fours (never mind his drink) and I paraded him round and about on all fours, every now and then a 'sit', 'beg', 'paw'...

Eventually finding a suitable glade into which I could make a show of him I made a special show off of his dog tricks with treats of pats, a spit in the mouth even. 'waggle your tale' I commanded, unknowingly for the last time; for I took the tail and gave it a jiggle...

Getting back soon but here I should like make a disclaimer; yes, I've always been a person of very physical strength, been told I don't know my own strength but I believed then, still do, to this day, that his virginal like sphincter, that very night, defied & tried to blame it's Mistress strength - that would never do.

Ah, yes, getting back to the innocent jiggle. 

Imagine jiggling a tale and OFF it comes. With that OFF there is a slight pause, a fleeting meeting of eyes of a fair crowd of watchers, then cruelty makes One waft the entrails of dog tail in the air with a cackle. Subbie stands up 'Mistress, it has gone right up, including the ridge, I need to go to the bathroom'. He was excused. At that moment I was contemplating when would, exactly, I get a brand new replacement dog tail plug

The conclusion of the evening was to be what it was; a swift exit, a swift drive home with assurances and then Mistress carrying out what felt like a breech birth - bulbous plug turned, only for it to disappear down and by gosh his tightness that evening belied his generosity in other areas. After truths of the possibilities of 'A&E, Triage Nurses and domestic explanations an expulsion was eventually mustered. 

Moral of the tail?

The Cruel Adventuress Visits Edinburgh Feb/March

Mistress travels once again - this time to bonny Edinburgh, a place I once stayed for a month as a performer many moons ago.

This time I shall be treading the slaves from the evening of Thursday February 28th until Tuesday 5th March late afternoon.

'Sessioning' from the infamous and exquisite central Edinburgh dungeon Maison De Debauch I will be conducting sessions within My capacities and wants - I am sure that slave/sub/sissy and I will meet those dark desires somewhere along the line.

So should you be in Edinburgh, from Edinburgh or can travel to Edinburgh then enquire now before I become all booked up.

Dinner, tea, cashpoint meets & visits to your home/hotel also possible!

Deposit required - read the contact page then get in contact.

https://www.thecrueladventuress.com/contact

Cruel Love,
Mistress

The Cruel Adventures of The Cruel Adventuress

Well a thrilling trip to Berlin was had with the dear lady come slut lola. Read all about it and if you need some adventure in your life with this cruel yet fun Mistress then look no further.

"Mistress, 

What a cruel adventure in Berlin - so much fun! And You are so so amazing. i have ever more respect, submission, and appreciation for the sensational person that You are. One night of adventure with You and i swear my life looks and feels incomparably better. Being a plaything heals me :) 

i first of all would like to express how deeply i appreciate Your willingness to hop on a plane and come over. i am grateful for the trust You placed in me and i truly enjoyed being able to host You. i hope we can do it again if Mistress would like and it is convenient. i am always open to feedback as i really want to serve as best i can. It makes me happy :)

That said i reveled in our adventure. Quite the arc of an evening! Your wit, appreciation and joie brought a smile every moment. Your kindness to lola continues to make me feel so special. i loved the bar right up to the moment where we exited with a bang (completely their loss but still a memorable moment!) And being subjected to Your cruel attentions was spectacular in so many ways. Your beauty entrances and astonishes me continually. There were moments that i can still feel reverberating within me, and i think they always will.  Our time together has inflamed and deepened my submissiveness to You. 

i remain in thrall and can't wait till the next chance to share a well-disciplined moment with Mistress. Thank You so much

lola

PS i am unlikely to regard crisps in quite the same way ever again.

PPS A few remembrances"

The Top End To The Very Bottom

As a woman of little pretensions I always try to keep the mundane middle at bay. For Mistress it is either the top or the very bottom - not suggesting that One would ever be at 'the bottom' as a being.

And so it was on an October evening when I met My latest lady friend, for she can indeed put on such pretensions and very well too.

At the posh and upbeat eatery where we were to meet I was made to wait by ten minutes whilst Madam apparently battled her way through the traffic but traffic would not save her later on, for such delays and sorry excuses would be later be met with the cross end of My mood, hand and strap on.

Draped in a russet shawl to match her newly acquired auburn bob she did look stunning I have to admit and at a glance, a fairly good look even, many may not have guessed what lay beneath those luscious layers.

We ate, we drank, caught up on life as though the oldest of girl friends despite this being only our second meeting. And soon we departed for the lower end of the scale.

Once back to the room, I wasted not a second in opening My suitcase of nasty things (although there was a quick D/s tango or two to a few Marlene favourites) before the ambience really turned blue.

The tension in the room grew as so did My new appendage in the form of a delightful strap on. lola was from thereon in taken like the slut she needed to be, first up the hotel window, exposed and heavy with submissive lust and then strewn across the bed (see above image), that sissy cunny once again exercised before I got her into My much favoured leather arm binder making her lipsticked mouth work hard. In the sticky end lola proved to be the perfect slutty maid in clearing up her own and Mistresses mess before escorting Me to My carriage.

We meet again soon and soon she will, once again, be mine.

Cruelly,
Mistress

Chaste For Mistress - The Latest Testimonial

Courtesy and the will to powerlessness always gets the sub somewhere, in One's world anyway. This chastity subbie was a fabulous new project that I will be taking to further lengths with all the dominant pleasure that I will afford him. Read on as to how appreciated I was knowing that I will be again in the not to far off future.

'Dear Mistress,
I am still breathless from our encounter last week - you contributed so much more than I ever expected. The fact that you were wicked, funny, intelligent and beautiful made it all the more amazing.
I learnt many things about myself - more practice needed (!), my attraction to feet and beautiful bottoms, and how I can learn to trust and submit ( more practice needed!)
Your intuition was wonderful, and your patience with this nervous subbie even more so.
And, thank you for sharing with me - I feel privileged.
And, what a feeling when the click of the lock sounded in the room....
Adoringly
Iain'

The Secret Sissy Salon - Sissy Party Central London

Launching this November 24th at The Queens Of London dungeon/chambers. The Secret Sissy Salon is an afternoon and evening of; transformation, followed by an alternative afternoon tea party with sordid parlour games to follow leading into a deeply perverse fetish play evening including such niceties as forced bi, bondage etc.,. There will be chance to extend your stay by two hours for the strap on finale should you be the ultimate party sissy stay out slut. Following on from the success of our Forced Bi parties this will be a sissy event to remember.

Hosted by house Mistresses Madam Helle and The Cruel Adventuress there will be a third high profile guest Mistress joining us to make sure all sissies get a thorough seeing to. Places are limited and we will NOT oversubscribe so leaving it until the last minute may find you a disappointed lady. 

By Madam Helle's express wish there will be room for two overnight sissy lock ins with the chance to extend their stay the next day. 

Set within an intimate, Edwardian styled dungeon in Paddington/Hyde Park there are limited places so early booking will ensure your slot - if you leave it too late will you chance being left out of all the delightful and perverse fun. 

Respecting everyones limits there will be a house safe word in force and we demand that every attendee respects each others limits too.

Tickets start at 150 pounds for the 4-8pm event and an additional 100 pounds is required for the additional 2 hour 8-10pm strap on special.

Enquiries regarding Madam Helle's sissy lock in should be made on application.

A deposit of 50 pounds is required for the 4-8pm with a 75 deposit for the six hours. Pending numbers there may be a possibility for the 2 hour strap on only at 150 pounds - these tickets shall be released nearer the date if available.

So make haste and join us at the splendid Secret Sissy Salon this November.

The Secret Sissy Salon

Saturday 24th November

4-10pm

Queens Of London dungeon, Paddington, W2

Entry: 150-250 pounds

EMAIL: mssadiest@gmail.com

The Splendid & The Sordid

Excitement, luxury and a descent into the sordid occured, to Mistress's delight this very week. Read the words from the submissive sissy lola who was granted not only an audience with yours cruelly, but a damned good going over...


'Mistress,

Thank You for a most fabulously sordid evening! Indeed a cruel adventure :) 

If i can simply say, You did bring me back to myself last night. Our play was exciting and challenging and just fun. You have so many talents that it left me gasping for more. You are a wonderfully strong, powerful woman with great presence. On top of that, to pun slightly, and i hope not to be too forward here, You radiate concern and engagement even as You dominate. Its an amazing combination.

i do hope to have more opportunities to experience Your presence. As it turns out i will be back in London October 

submissively

lola'

The Like But Unequal Minded

There is nothing more pleasing than a grovelling male, those types that from the onset assume their positions and take what is meted out, with gratitude. The ones who are in need of a cool, calculating, sophisticated and mean Ice Queen to be their cool, calculating, sophisticated and mean Ice Queen.

Motivation can become an obstacle after years of being a BDSM player some years it is true but when I am presented with the above I am as motivated as those early years - even more so now as I do not session/play that frequently, despite my pro Domme status. Using my powers of both the mind and the body I enjoy nothing more than taking the sub male on a journey, one of wicked delights and cruel surprises: whether it be over two hours, a day or some prolonged status of time there are plenty of ways in which I will take you on the path to submissive heaven. Respecting boundaries, limits and experience comes with the territory as does My need to Dominate the submissive in every way possible.

To get into the space W/we have to be like minded but W/we have, also, to be unequally minded - that, I know, is crucial.

Cruel love,
The Cruel Adventuress

For session enquiries see My site and contact Mistress after reading.
www.thecrueladventuress.com

Stepping Into The Circle Of O

A good Domme/slave party is always fun (sadistically fun that is) and so it is with that thought that I am announcing that I am now a lady of The Circle Of O parties.

With regular London and UK wide dates I expect to be joining The Circle Of O very soon for a soiree of perversions and punishments.

Mistress says go visit the website, follow them on Twitter and I strongly hope to see you there soon!

Cruel love,
The Cruel Adventuress

All The Elements In That Creation

When all the elements come together, in their rightful modes, a scene can not only be created but out of that creation a strange but rightful chemistry can certainly be produced...

'Dear Mistress,
Thank you very much for the excellent session yesterday. I found it at times very thrilling/scary. It was great to be pushed after it being such a long time out of the scene.
I very much enjoyed your demeanour and approach. A wry smile mixed with a wicked sense of surprise and physical force was a delightful combination.
I di hope we can session again.
Till the next time, best wishes'

Post session reflections still occur with Myself a week on; that that had been transformed lying strapped to the padded cage top, legs akimbo with an almost post coital poise although, of course, no physical, sexual intercourse had been in the equation (or would be in any, ever). What had, been in the equation, was the needle play, at play, whilst trope secured down and almost hyperventilating (but monitored closely) endured the short term pain for the long term gain. The coolness of One's actions opposed to the rising heat of the trope before Me was a delight; the way, then, that trope swayed whilst coaxing off the long opera gloves, whilst coaxed by Mistress, a distinct pleasure. All this is a reminder as to why I am in this cruel but rewarding game and all this raises the question; will you be My next creation?

Cruel love,

Mistress

Taming The Unruly

Yet more words of appreciation! And know he has definitely set himself up for the next round of punishments with the second but last statement...

"Dear Mistress Sadie,

How are you? Very well I hope.

I just wanted to write and thank you for organising such a wonderful session last Saturday. Every aspect of the meeting with you was perfection; the location, your attire, demeanour, the kinks we explored and the playlist, the playlist was absolutely fantastic. Watching you prepare in between being subject to breath play and CBT at your hands is something that will linger in the memory for a good while yet.

It was a genuine pleasure for me to have been privileged enough to spend time with such a stunningly beautiful, intelligent, humorous and highly skilled Mistress. Words really are not enough some times are they?

The statement "everyone loves bondage don't they?" Still makes me laugh.

I look forward to being in a position to serve you again soon.

Best regards

Daniel"

Busting Those Balls On A Sunny Afternoon

As I do not get "reviewed" I thought I would post an email of appreciation from a recent session and of course My response! Happy reading, slutbags.

Hey Miss Sadie,

I just wanted to say a massive thankyou for today, it was one of the best experiences in my life. Even the small touches - the music selection, the spontinuity (I don't know how to spell spontinuity) and you have a natural aura where dominating miserable people like me comes natural to you! 

I cannot tell you how close I was to yelling yellow bellie (our safeword) during the ballbusting session in the end, I was nearing tears! And the deep heat ... soooo mean I can't believe you done that! It's still tender now you'll be pleased to know.

Thankyou for everything!! Xxx

My response: 

Dear Fuckface (stinky fuckface at that),

It was sincerely My pleasure, I have to say that I really enjoyed today - I love it when I get someone who is really up for the real BDSM deal and you were. The scene is changing so much that I tire of lists, fussy "slaves" and dislikes - It should be how it was today with exploration, intuition & trust. There is so much more to explore but I am aware that distance may be problem but do not leave it too long for I should like to show much, much more and make you into the better sub/slave I know you could be. 

I cannot tell you how close I was to yelling "I am having a fantasic time" during the ballbusting session and I was nearing tears (with laughter) especially just after the application of the Deep Heat - perfect! 

Find the pictures attached. Im afraid they are not high quality due to the light but they should suffice - wishing I'd got one of My design about your male apparel now, but perhaps next time, should there be one. 

Cruel Love, 

your Mistress

Strictly Boardroom: Double Domme Sessions

Are you sitting at your desk comfortably? We will make sure you won't be for long for Lady Seductress & The Cruel Adventuress are waiting for you in their office and if there is one thing they despise, it is waiting for the subordinate businessman to arrive. 

With you making a bad start you'll no doubt be on your knees soon enough with  it all  taken down, in the minutes, by the strict secretary: whilst the Chairwoman underlines the boardroom punishments to be doled out.

Perhaps you'll be made to wear a plug, sent back to your desk and instructed to remain in situ for the remainder of the day; or if caught glancing at the stocking tops punished there and then with a bout of CP or some other chosen necessity. Just imagine being reprimanded by these stunning, strong, formidable women in their slick business attire with their strong, formidable and slick business minds.

Importantly, a contract with exclusive clauses may have to be drawn up and signed by business slave to show his true engagement and commitment in the policies of Strict Business Bitches Ltd., 

Meeting adjourned,

The Cruel Adventuress

For all enquiries regarding a strict business double Domination session email: mssadiest@gmail.com

A Short History Of My Dominant Self

I had always had strange fascinations with pain & violence - with the latter I think because of my upbringing; seeing lots of violence in my youth due to where I was brought up. Finding out how to control these two facets was something that came easily and naturally and today I thrive from it as a much needed release.

I started going to fetish clubs in the early 00s mostly due to the burlesque club that I was running. I became enraptured with the scene in London and even performed at Torture Garden back in 2007. One of my favourite nights was Club Pedestal of course as this was(is) a night specifically for Dommes - now there are even more popping up such as Club Femdom & The Femdom Ball I feel in my element.

In terms of the online "Mistressing" scene - well on discovering it through google I would regularly surf the web taking in what each Mistress did and said on their sites and on Mistress listing sites, fascinated with it all. It harked back to the mid 90s (when I was 18) when I did adult phonework and at times did Domination: For this I had been given a Mistress manual and a few talks by the owner of the chatline - back then most of what is now normal was quite shocking and surprising. To train up properly, back in the early 00s,  I decided to do some BDSM dating and soon had a small select stable of slaves/subs who I then learnt very quickly to take advantage of.

Prior to that as a young teen I had seen Personal Services with Julie Walters - one of my favourite films next to Mary P0ppins - and it was on seeing this that I was first enlightened. And prior to that? Well of course I was always beating up the boys at school...

The Cruel Adventuress

The Story Behind That Image

They say an image can speak a thousand words - well I am certainly not going to write a thousand here but thought that I would elaborate on the above.

Here we see; the classic femme fatale, the blackmailess, the hit woman, the kidnapper, the vampire - out stalking her victim and finally, possibly, a Dominatrix enjoying the roleplay.

The inspiration for this image was taken from Eric Stanton's works. There is not a specific image that comes to mind but this was a result of his highly stylistic work that has many a time been appreciated by myself. Taking in the "cartoonishness" of it all the expression could, I suppose, be interpreted in many a way - one of; aftershock and contemplation, slight disgust, cool determination from a hard woman but one that ultimately spells out that he, the lowly male, is going to get it - whether it be by;

ball busting 

confession through electro-stimulation to the scrotum

being hogtied with various small torture methods - pegging, pricking, waterboarding

being trampled on

being made to take my heel of steel in all holes

being bent, bound and buggered hard 

The list is endless

Further enquires and suggestions to mssadiest@gmail.com 

And remember that this is roleplay - hurting is only by consent!

The Cruel Adventuress 

www.thecrueladventuress.com

xxx

The Wickedest Girl In School - My New page

The Wickedest Girl

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It is true that I was the wickedest girl in the school; nothing changes then, I suppose. Not only was I always plotting, scheming and getting others into trouble but I was (genuinely) always beating up the boys - with an unnerving competitiveness that was always targeted first and foremostly at the male sort. 

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So setting a scene not so unfamilar, this page is dedicated to my early beginnings as a Domme; although at the time I would have been somewhat innocent to the fact that my life would continue and flourish in the Femdom manner as seen today.

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Sessions are available with the cruel and wicked headgirl (Mistress) alone or  with (recommended) her bestie - my Mistress in training.

Agree with me when I say that you will not regret the nasty games and punishments we will beset upon you.

See my page now with wickedest girls gallery...http://www.thecrueladventuress.com/

The Return - In Various Guises

Well maybe in not that obvious a guise!

Yes, I am now back for the forseeable future and hoping to see a healthy diary at that.

My new site is www.thecrueladventuress.com  which I will updating by the day, hour even, as I cultivate it with various pages, vital information and even more images old and new etc.,

Note that I have returned to session out of the fully equipped dungeons in W1, Central London and will be conducting sessions, dinner dates and combinations forthwith.

Mistress Sadie's Last Ever Week

Slaves, sluts, subs and sissies

As you may or may not know this coming week will be my final one as I will be hanging up my wicked implements for the last time as Mistress Sadie Of London; henceforth this very announcement.

 

 

I will be at the ready within my chambers and I am hoping that this, my ultimate week, will be a memorable one.

 

 

Bookings will be taken for not only sessions but combined dinner and sessions and also domination via Skype.

 

 

So if you are free, able and wish to get your BDSM and /or fetish groove on, then do not hesitate to reply - then, leave any trace of alpha at my door and see out your darkest desires with yours cruelly.

 

Don't be scared now,

Mistress Sadie Of London